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How to Prepare for Divorce Mediation with a Controlling Ex
Divorce mediation is meant to create space for resolution — but when you’re sitting across from a controlling or confrontational ex, that space can quickly feel anything but neutral. This article offers trauma-aware strategies to help you prepare, stay grounded, and protect your peace throughout the mediation process. Learn how to set clear goals, recognize manipulative patterns, and maintain your composure, even when the other party thrives on control.
Oct 153 min read
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6 Signs You’re Experiencing Post-Separation Coercive Control
Leaving a relationship doesn’t always mean the abuse ends. Post-separation coercive control can continue through communication, finances, children, and even the legal system. Here are six warning signs to watch for—and why recognizing the pattern is the first step to breaking free.
Sep 292 min read
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Coercive Control: What It Is, and Why It’s So Hard to Explain
"You don’t need bruises for abuse to be real. Coercive control works in silence—isolating, gaslighting, and slowly stripping away your sense of self. It doesn’t always leave evidence others can see, but its impact is profound. Understanding what coercive control looks like is the first step toward reclaiming your voice, your clarity, and your freedom.
Sep 182 min read
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Morbidity and Mortality Conferences: Reshaping the Family Law Landscape
What do M&MCs have to do with family law? Nothing yet...although given the utility & purpose M&MCs in the medical field, I propose family...
Jan 17, 20245 min read
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Trauma-Informed Justice: Addressing Post-Separation Abuse in Family Law
Separation doesn't silence abuse; it just changes its tune. Logic would dictate that once a person leaves an abusive situation, they...
Jan 4, 20247 min read
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