Divorce mediation is meant to create space for resolution — but when you’re sitting across from a controlling or confrontational ex, that space can quickly feel anything but neutral. This article offers trauma-aware strategies to help you prepare, stay grounded, and protect your peace throughout the mediation process. Learn how to set clear goals, recognize manipulative patterns, and maintain your composure, even when the other party thrives on control.

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