What is Pre-Mediation Coaching?

How do I prepare?
What should I expect?
Will mediation work?
What if it doesn't work?
What if my ex is high conflict?
If you're asking any of these questions,
Pre - Mediation Coaching may be for you.
As a Certified New Ways for Families® (NWFF) Coach, Trish can educate you on the:
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process & steps in the mediation process
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various components of agreements
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4 skills for negotiating with your high conflict ex.
Imagine yourself walking into mediation:
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feeling confident
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feeling in control
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knowing what to expect
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prepared with your plan & proposal
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armed with skills to handle your difficult ex
This can be possible even if you're faced with any of the typical tactics high conflict people like to employ such as:
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intimidation
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unsubstantiated blame
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refusal to take accountability
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dredging up the past
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rigid, all or nothing thinking.
6 P's of Planning
Prior Proper Planning
Prevents Poor Performance
Goals of Pre-Mediation Coaching
a) Understand the stages & the process of mediation.
b) Proposal Development
c) Develop strategies for overcoming fears & perceived barriers.
d) Adopt decision making using logic rather than emotion.
e) Utilize the 4 skills from New Ways for Families® to de-escalate conflict & counteract the tactics your high conflict ex may employ.